Easwaran on Thomas a Kempis’ The Imitation of Christ: Talk 42
Posted on January 23, 2012 | Add Comment
This is the 42nd in a long series of talks Eknath Easwaran gave on The Imitation of Christ by Thomas a Kempis. In this talk Easwaran reads and discusses book 3, chapter 10, “That to Despise the World and Serve God is a Sweet Life.”
Here is an excerpt from the beginning of the talk:
“Some of the words that we come across in Thomas a Kempis do not exactly mean what they mean in a modern short story. The word ‘despise’ for example: despising the world means not being selfishly attached to the things of the world, not going after what promises to bring us ultimate satisfaction, and usually brings us more and more frustration.
“In order to lead the spiritual life, we are told that any kind of selfish attachment, whether it is to money or material possessions or to people, will bring higher and higher obstacles in the way of our living in abiding joy and unassailable security. This is not something we read about in books. This is something that we experience in everyday life. If you want to verify the words of Jesus the Christ, or the Compassionate Buddha, we can ask anybody who is often in great turmoil, perhaps even in great distress, how much of his time or her time is spent on brooding on himself or herself.
“On the contrary, if you come across anyone who is an unassailable state of joy and security, you can conclude and verify it by observing him or her that they hardly think about themselves. Despising the world in this sense means turning our back upon what drives us to pursue money, material possessions, pleasure, power, or prestige in the belief that they will bring lasting joy to all of us. What brings lasting joy to everyone is right within ourselves.
“My spiritual teacher, my grandmother, used to narrate a very homely story of a young woman getting married. On the occasion of the Hindu marriage in many parts of India, they tie what is called a mangala sutra around the neck of the bride. This is usually of black thread, and nowadays, the black thread is encased in gold, but I still think right inside there is the black thread. Sutra means thread, mangala means ‘of joy.’ In marriage, what brings joy is remembering the joy of the partner first and last. This is the mangala sutra that symbolizes our finding our complete joy in contributing to the joy of our partner.
“My grandmother would tell a story that a young girl who had been married suddenly lost her mangala sutra and got completely panicky. She went searching all over the place, pulling out every drawer that she could find, and when she was almost on the point of breaking down, her mother said, ‘What’s the matter, why are you so panic stricken?’ The girl said, ‘I have lost my mangala sutra.’ The mother said, ‘Just look around your neck.’ She went and looked in the mirror, there it was. And she said, ‘I have been looking for it all over the place.’ Just as you and I — we are looking for our mangala sutra — looking to our safe deposits, you know. When you go into a bank, the ceremony of going into a safe deposit is really impressive. Those doors, which even elephants can’t tackle, and you must have two keys, one in your possession, the other in the possession of the keeper of the seal.
“It’s a big ceremony because this is where people keep their valuable deposits, and in our case the vault is right within, burglar proof, moth proof, rust proof, depreciation proof. I sometimes see an advertisement about, ‘Don’t you want to join the biggest bank?’ We have. We are already members, the bank of the Kingdom of Heaven within where there is abiding joy and unassailable security ready for all of us who are prepared to take the trouble of just going in, putting our elbow on the counter and saying, ‘Can I see my account?’ This is all we have to ask, but we are so busy, wandering outside, that none of us ever try to remember that the source of all joy and the source of all security is within us, under every circumstance.”
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